Extreme Ownership
How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win
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2 Executive Summary Cheatsheet
The core philosophy of “Extreme Ownership” is that leaders are responsible for everything in their world. There are no excuses. The leader is responsible for the team’s success or failure.
2.1 Principle 1: Extreme Ownership
This is the foundational principle. Leaders must own everything in their world.
Acknowledge mistakes: If something goes wrong, the leader is ultimately responsible. Don’t blame others or external factors.
Take responsibility for failures: This includes the failures of team members under your command.
Develop solutions: Once ownership is taken, focus on solving the problem and implementing strategies to prevent recurrence.
Cascade to the team: This mindset must be adopted by everyone in the team.
Leadership means taking full responsibility for the mission and your team. This can be a heavy burden, but it’s essential for success. When things go wrong, the first place to look is in the mirror.
If a project fails, a sales target is missed, or a product launch is flawed, the leader doesn’t blame the market, the team, or bad luck. They analyze what they could have done differently: clearer communication, better resource allocation, more training, etc.
2.2 Principle 2: No Bad Teams, Only Bad Leaders
A team’s performance is a direct reflection of its leadership.
Set high standards: Leaders must enforce high standards of performance.
Train and equip: Ensure the team has the knowledge, skills, and resources to succeed.
Lead by example: Demonstrate the behaviors and work ethic expected from the team.
Replace underperformers (if necessary): If a team member consistently fails to meet standards despite support and training, a leader must make tough personnel decisions.
2.3 Principle 3: Believe
A leader must be a true believer in the mission.
Understand the ‘Why’: Leaders must fully understand and internalize the mission’s purpose.
Communicate the ‘Why’: Effectively articulate the mission’s importance to the team, ensuring they understand how their individual roles contribute.
Address doubts: If team members (or the leader) have doubts, these must be addressed openly. Find the belief or clarify misunderstandings.
Conviction is contagious: A leader’s genuine belief inspires and motivates the team.
2.4 Principle 4: Check the Ego
Ego is a destructive force in leadership.
Admit mistakes: Ego prevents leaders from admitting they were wrong, hindering learning and improvement.
Listen to others: Ego makes it difficult to take advice or feedback from subordinates or peers.
Prioritize the mission: Personal glory or ambition should never supersede the team’s objectives.
Humility enables growth: A humble leader is open to learning and can build stronger relationships.
3 Core Leadership Laws
These are combat-proven principles for effective leadership and team performance.
- Cover and Move: Teamwork is paramount. Departments and individuals must support each other to achieve common goals. If one part of the team fails, everyone fails.
- Simple: Keep plans, strategies, and communication simple and clear. Complexity leads to confusion and mistakes, especially under pressure. Everyone must understand the plan and their role in it.
- Prioritise and Execute: In any complex situation, there will be multiple problems. Leaders must identify the highest priority task, focus resources on it, and execute. Then move to the next priority.
- Relax, look around, make a call.
- Decentralized Command: Junior leaders must be empowered to make decisions on the front lines. Senior leaders provide the strategic vision and intent, but allow subordinates the freedom to execute.
- Everyone leads. Empower team members at all levels to take ownership of their tasks and make decisions.
This doesn’t mean chaos. Leaders set clear boundaries, intent, and objectives. Subordinates operate within these guidelines, using their initiative to solve problems as they arise. This creates faster, more agile teams. For this to work, junior leaders must understand why they are doing something, not just what to do.
3.1 Other key ideas
3.2 Key Phrases to use / Mindsets to Adopt
- “This is on me.” / “I take full responsibility.”
- “What could I have done differently?”
- “The mission comes first.”
- “Believe. Question until you do, then execute.”
- “Prioritize and execute. What’s the biggest problem? Solve it.”
- “Discipline equals freedom.”
- “There are no bad teams, only bad leaders.”
- “Check your ego at the door.”
- “Default: Aggressive. Take action.”
- “Simple. Keep it simple.”
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5 Practise
The principles of Extreme Ownership are best learned through application. Consider a recent situation at work or in your personal life where things didn’t go as planned.
Identify a failure or problem: Be specific.
Apply Extreme Ownership: Instead of blaming external factors or other people, ask yourself: * What was my role in this situation? * What could I have done differently to influence a better outcome? * What steps will I take now to fix the problem and prevent it from happening again?
Write down your reflections: This act of writing helps solidify the lessons.
For an interactive scenario, imagine you are leading a team project that is behind schedule and over budget. How would you apply the principles of:
Prioritize and Execute
Simple,
Leading Up and Down the Chain
to get it back on track?
6 Learn More
- Get the book:
- Echelon Front (Authors’ Leadership Consultancy)