Courage Is Calling

Fortune Favours the Brave

stoicism
philosophy
self help
personal development
Overcome fear and unlock your potential! This Learnerd summary of Ryan Holiday’s “Courage Is Calling” breaks down the Stoic virtue of courage into actionable steps. Learn to confront fear, practice daily bravery, and answer the call to heroism in your own life.

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2 Book Summary: Courage Is Calling by Ryan Holiday

Ryan Holiday’s Courage Is Calling is the first in a new series exploring the four cardinal virtues of Stoicism: Courage, Temperance, Justice, and Wisdom. This book deconstructs courage into three parts: conquering Fear, acting with Courage in the moment, and rising to the Heroic. It uses historical stories and modern examples to show that courage is not a rare trait but a virtue we can all cultivate and practice.

2.1 Part I: Overcoming Fear

Fear is the primary obstacle to courage. Holiday argues that to be brave, we must first understand and confront our fears. Fear manifests in many forms, from terror and anxiety to apathy and cynicism.

  1. Answer the Call: Everyone receives a “call” to do something significant, like Florence Nightingale felt called to service. This call is often met with fear - of failure, of judgment, of the unknown. Answering it is the first step.
  2. Use Logic to Defeat Fear: Fear is often “False Evidence Appearing Real”. We must break down our fears logically. Ask “What if?” not to catastrophise, but to prepare. Define your fears to see them clearly, and you’ll find they are rarely as powerful as they seem in the shadows.
  3. Don’t Fear What Others Think: The fear of public opinion is one of the most paralysing forces. Most great acts were done over the objections of the status quo. You cannot do anything meaningful without pissing some people off. As Cicero said, “They will say it in any case”.
  4. Recognise Agency: Often, we believe we have no power in a situation, making it an “effective truth”. Courage begins with rejecting this and asserting your agency. You must believe you can make a difference before you can act.

Holiday argues that the true opposite of courage is not cowardice, but apathy and cynicism. Believing that nothing matters or that you can’t make a difference is a safe, cowardly position. It takes courage to care, to believe, and to have hope.

Inspired by the Stoic practice of premeditatio malorum (premeditation of evils), you can neutralise fear by defining it.

  1. Define: What is the absolute worst-case scenario if you do what you’re afraid of? Get specific.
  2. Prevent: What steps can you take to prevent or decrease the likelihood of that worst-case scenario?
  3. Repair: If the worst happens, what could you do to repair the damage? Who could you ask for help? By articulating the nightmare, you often realise it’s survivable, reducing its power over you.

2.2 Part II: The Practice of Courage

Courage is not a feeling; it is a decision and an action. It’s something we do, often in small,積み重ねる (tsumikasaneru - to pile up) acts that build into something greater.

  1. Just Start Somewhere: You don’t need a grand plan. Courageous journeys begin with a single step or petites actions (small actions). Leaking the Pentagon Papers began with Daniel Ellsberg simply taking a few documents home to read.
  2. Seize the Offensive: Don’t wait to be acted upon. Courageous people, like General Grant in the Civil War, stop worrying about what the enemy will do and focus on what they are going to do. Take the initiative and set the tempo.
  3. A Few Seconds is All You Need: A courageous act often hinges on just a few seconds of “insane bravery”. Like JFK’s call to Coretta Scott King, which took moments but may have won him the presidency, your pivotal moment may be brief. The key is to act without hesitation when the moment arrives.
  4. Own It: Courage means taking responsibility. When you make a decision, you own the consequences, good or bad. Passing the blame or making excuses is the hallmark of a coward. The buck stops with you.

Aristotle defined courage as the midpoint between two vices: cowardice on one end and recklessness on the other. True courage is not needless risk-taking or bravado. It is calculated, necessary, and disciplined. As the explorer Magellan showed, the most audacious plans are forged in fire and hardened in ice - conceived boldly but executed with caution.

2.3 Part III: The Heroic

The highest form of courage is heroism: risking yourself for others. This is selflessness, altruism, and love in action. It’s what elevates a brave act into a legendary one.

  1. The Cause Makes All: Bravery for a worthless or evil cause is empty. As Lord Byron wrote, “’Tis the Cause makes all, / Degrades or hallows courage in its fall”. Heroism is courage in service of a just and noble purpose.
  2. Unity Over Self: Heroes act for the benefit of the group. As POW James Stockdale explained, the code among prisoners was “Unity over Self”. This meant being your brother’s keeper, willing to sacrifice for the well-being of others. The opposite of fear, Holiday concludes, is love - for comrades, for country, for a cause.
  3. Make People Bigger: A hero’s impact is measured by how they elevate others. Florence Nightingale didn’t just heal the sick; she raised the standards of care for generations. A true leader doesn’t just display courage; their calm and resolve are contagious, making everyone around them braver.
  4. Go Back to the Valley: It takes courage to leave for a better life, but it can be even more heroic to stay and fight, or to return to a dangerous situation to help others. Dietrich Bonhoeffer returned to Nazi Germany from the safety of America because he felt he had no right to help rebuild if he didn’t share in his people’s trials.

2.4 Other key ideas

Holiday introduces the four Stoic virtues that this book series explores. They are the “hinges” on which the door to a good life hangs:

  1. Courage: Facing fear and doing what’s right.
  2. Temperance: Self-control, moderation, and balance.
  3. Justice: Fairness, kindness, and service to others.
  4. Wisdom: Knowledge, truth, and self-reflection. These virtues are interrelated; one cannot exist without the others. Courage is the form every virtue takes at its testing point.

The book argues there aren’t two kinds of courage, but one: putting your ass on the line.

  • Physical Courage might be a firefighter running into a building.
  • Moral Courage is a whistleblower speaking out against corruption. Both involve risk, sacrifice, and commitment. One requires you to brave physical danger, the other social, financial, or professional ruin. Both are expressions of the same core virtue.

Courage is a muscle that must be developed through practice. You can’t expect to be brave in a huge moment if you are timid in small ones.

  • Do one thing that scares you every day.
  • Start with small acts: speak up in a meeting, take a cold shower, admit you don’t know something.
  • By making courage a habit, you “make our nervous system our ally instead of our enemy”, as William James said. When a crisis comes, you’ll act bravely by instinct.

2.5 Key Phrases to use

  • If not me, then who? If not now, then when?
  • What would the world look like if everyone thought that way?
  • The world wants to know if you have cojones. If you are brave?
  • Fortune favors the bold.
  • Don’t fight the problem, decide it.
  • Sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane courage.
  • The opposite of fear is love.

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4 Practise

Identify one small, recurring fear that holds you back. It could be the fear of speaking up, of asking for something, or of trying something new where you might look foolish.

This week, commit to doing that one thing. Use the “few seconds of courage” principle: don’t overthink it, just act. Afterward, reflect not on the outcome, but on the feeling of having acted despite the fear. This is how you make courage a habit.

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