Hidden Potential

The Science of Achieving Greater Things

personal development
psychology
self help

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2 Book Summary: Hidden Potential by Adam Grant

Adam Grant’s Hidden Potential argues that greatness is not born but grown. We often mistakenly focus on innate talent and early achievements, overlooking the incredible distances people can travel through nurtured character, motivation, and opportunity. This summary breaks down the book’s core framework for unlocking the potential in ourselves and others.

2.1 Part I: Develop Skills of Character

Character is not a fixed trait but a set of skills that can be learned. It’s our capacity to live by our principles, especially on hard days. Grant identifies three crucial character skills for growth.

  1. Become a Creature of Discomfort Growth happens when we step outside our comfort zones. This requires courage in three forms:

    • Abandon your learning style: The idea that we have a fixed learning style (e.g., visual, auditory) is a myth. True learning often happens when we use the method that is best for the task, even if it feels uncomfortable. For example, writer’s block can be overcome by embracing the discomfort of writing, which forces clearer thinking.
    • Practise before you feel ready: You don’t get comfortable before you practise a skill; you get comfortable by practising it. Polyglots like Benny Lewis and Sara Maria Hasbun became fluent in multiple languages as adults by forcing themselves to speak from day one, despite feeling awkward and unprepared.
    • Make more mistakes: Mistakes are not failures; they are signals of learning. Setting a “mistake budget” (e.g., aiming for 200 mistakes a day like Benny Lewis) reframes errors as progress, which reduces the fear of trying and accelerates improvement.

  2. Become a Human Sponge Improving depends on the quality, not just the quantity, of information we absorb. Being a sponge is a proactive skill of seeking and filtering knowledge for growth, not ego.

    • Build absorptive capacity: This is the ability to recognise, value, assimilate, and apply new information. It requires being proactive in seeking knowledge and having a growth-oriented goal for filtering it.
    • Ask for advice, not feedback: Feedback is backward-looking and often prompts criticism or cheerleading. Advice is forward-looking and encourages coaching. Asking “What’s one thing I can do better next time?” elicits more constructive input.
    • Trust the right sources: Filter advice based on the source’s care (they want what’s best for you), credibility (they have relevant expertise), and familiarity (they know you well).

Grant outlines four types based on how we seek and filter information:

  • Rubber (Reactive + Ego): Information bounces off. You don’t seek it, and you reject anything that threatens your image.
  • Teflon (Proactive + Ego): Nothing sticks. You seek feedback but discard any criticism that feels uncomfortable.
  • Clay (Reactive + Growth): You are mouldable but wait for others to shape you. You internalise feedback but don’t actively seek it.
  • Sponge (Proactive + Growth): The sweet spot. You proactively seek information to expand and adapt, fuelling continuous growth.
  1. Become an Imperfectionist The pursuit of perfection is a trap that stunts growth. Instead, we should embrace imperfection strategically. This is the art of wabi sabi - finding beauty in flaws.
    • Strive for excellence, not perfection: Perfectionists obsess over minor details, avoid difficult tasks, and berate themselves for mistakes. Excellence, however, allows for flaws. Architect Tadao Ando creates earthquake-proof masterpieces by prioritising durability and design while accepting imperfections in function.
    • Aim for a “minimum lovable product”: Instead of waiting for flawless, aim for something that is good enough to be valued. This allows for iteration and improvement without getting paralysed by perfectionism.
    • Use judges to gauge progress: To get an objective measure of progress, ask a trusted group to score your work (e.g., on a scale of 0-10) and then ask how you can get closer to a 10.

Perfectionism often backfires by causing:

  1. Tunnel Vision: Obsessing over details that don’t matter while ignoring bigger, more important problems.
  2. Avoidance: Shying away from difficult tasks that might lead to failure, thereby limiting skill development.
  3. Self-Flagellation: Berating yourself for mistakes, which hinders learning from them and erodes motivation.

2.2 Other key ideas

Even with strong character, motivation can wane. We need scaffolding - temporary support structures - to overcome obstacles like burnout, stagnation, and self-doubt.

  1. Transform the Daily Grind with Deliberate Play: Monotonous practice leads to boreout. The key is to find harmonious passion by blending structured learning with play. Percussionist Evelyn Glennie and NBA star Steph Curry thrive by turning drills into enjoyable, game-like challenges that build skills without killing joy.
  2. Get Unstuck by Moving Backward: Progress is rarely linear. When you hit a plateau, you often need to retreat to find a new path forward. Pitcher R.A. Dickey salvaged his career by abandoning his old pitching style and learning the difficult, unpredictable knuckleball from scratch - a step back that ultimately propelled him to the top. This requires a compass (a general direction), not a perfect map.
  3. Defy Gravity with Collective Support: The idea of “pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps” is a myth. We overcome daunting obstacles through interdependence. The Golden Thirteen, the first Black naval officers, succeeded against overwhelming prejudice by teaching and coaching one another, turning individual doubts into collective confidence.

Individual growth depends on the systems around us. We must design better systems in schools, teams, and hiring to give everyone a chance to flourish.

  1. Design Schools for Every Child: Finland built a world-class education system by assuming every child has potential. Their practices include “looping” (keeping students with the same teacher for multiple years), providing strong individualised support, and prioritising play-based learning to foster intrinsic motivation. The goal is not to leave no child behind, but to help every child get ahead.
  2. Unearth Collective Intelligence in Teams: The smartest teams aren’t those with the smartest individuals, but those that harness everyone’s thinking. The Chilean miner rescue succeeded because leaders created a “lattice system” where ideas could flow from anyone, anywhere - bypassing a rigid “ladder” hierarchy. Shifting from brainstorming to “brainwriting” (generating ideas individually first) ensures all voices are heard.
  3. Discover Diamonds in the Rough: Typical hiring and admissions processes are flawed. They favour credentials and past performance, overlooking candidates who have traveled great distances against adversity. We should look for “grade point trajectory” (improvement over time) and use realistic work samples instead of interrogations to see what people are truly capable of. Astronaut José Hernandez was rejected 11 times by NASA before they finally saw the potential forged by his journey from migrant farmworker to engineer.

2.3 Key Phrases to use

  • Potential is not a matter of where you start, but of how far you travel.
  • Character is your capacity to prioritise your values over your instincts.
  • Ask for advice, not feedback. What’s one thing I can do better next time?
  • The advice you give to others is usually the advice you need to take for yourself.
  • Strive for excellence, not perfection. Aim for a minimum lovable product.
  • It is better to disappoint others than to disappoint yourself.
  • Teach what you want to learn.
  • Success is not just reaching our goals - it’s living our values.
  • I’m giving you these comments because I have very high expectations and I’m confident that you can reach them. (before giving feedback)

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4 Practise

Reflect on an area where you feel stuck or have hit a plateau. Following the principles in Hidden Potential, design a small experiment to get unstuck:

  1. Back Up (Chapter 5): What is one fundamental assumption or method you’ve been using that you could abandon, even temporarily? What new “compass” direction could you explore? (e.g., If you’re stuck on a report, try outlining it as a presentation instead).
  2. Find a Detour (Chapter 5): Identify a “small win” you can achieve in a different, but related, area to refuel your motivation. (e.g., If you’re struggling to learn a new software, master a single, useful shortcut first).
  3. Introduce Deliberate Play (Chapter 4): How can you turn the most boring part of your practice into a game? (e.g., Time yourself, compete against your past performance, or add variety to the task).

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